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Take it “Room By Room”

Thursday, August 5th, 2010

We had just finished building our new home and studio, which was a HUGE undertaking. I sat in the middle of our home gazing around at this big open “bare” space feeling totally overwhelmed. Now, it was time to decorate and I had no idea where to begin. We had spent everything we had emotionally and financially just trying to get the house built. I felt paralyzed, but knew I needed to finish the job. It was our dream home and I wanted it to express our creative touch and to be equipped to suit our various needs.

In my paralyzed state, I started flipping through the TV channels, came across HGTV and soon found my answer. It was the decorating show “Room By Room.” It wasn’t the décor from this show that necessarily captured my attention as much as it was the “concept”. The approach was to take it one room at a time. I had found my answer!

Instead of feeling overwhelmed with the enormous endeavor of decorating the entire house I would start with one room. I would work on one room until I finished it the way I wanted it and then move on. Wow! Did I feel relieved, all of a sudden I found a solution to my frustration…a solution to getting my house the way I wanted it.

Do you feel that way with life sometimes? Are you overwhelmed with everything that you want to accomplish? Are you paralyzed by the hugeness of daily life and the un-ending “To Do” list or should I call it a “Dream” list? Do you have a business or ministry that overwhelms you to where you have difficulty managing every aspect? Perhaps the answer is for you to take it “room by room.”

There is an familiar saying, “How do you eat an elephant……one bite at a time.

1. Make a list of your rooms. What projects do you need to accomplish?

2. Pick the top three rooms/projects that are most important—the ones most beneficial for productive living and success.

3. Start with the core room/project of your endeavor. Otherwise, what is the foundational project that needs to be accomplished in order for the other projects to have any merit?

4. Make a list of any tools or help you may need in accomplishing the first task. (Just like you see in a cake recipe—the ingredients needed to make and bake the cake. You have to have the ingredients before you can start the process.) Make sure you have everything you need. There is nothing worse than starting a recipe and finding out you don’t have any eggs.

5. Make a list of steps to accomplish the project.

6. Take the first step! Once you take the first step the other steps are much easier.

7. Don’t stop until you have finished the project! You can’t enjoy the room or the cake with out completing each step.

8. Move on to the next project in your top three. Once you have completed your top three. Make a new list and do it again!

“Do not throw away your confidence, it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will be receive what he has promised.” Hebrews 10:35-36

Don’t give up! Don’t get discouraged! Don’t throw away your confidence! Take it “room-by-room” and finish the work you have been called to do—enjoy the room and delight yourself in the satisfaction of a job well done.

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How To Get Out Of a Rut

Monday, January 19th, 2009
Are you in a rut? Are you in a place where you’re dealing with the same issues over and over again? Do you feel like your life is at a standstill? Maybe you’re in a rut financially, or with work, with relationships,with exercise, or with life in general.

A rut is a routine procedure, situation, or way of life that has become uninteresting and tiresome. Because I tend to find myself in a rut from time to time and hungry for some pointed motivation, I thought I’d share with you four steps to help you get out of a rut.

Step #1: Visualize
What would it take to be out of the rut you are in? Often times we can’t see beyond the rut or how to get out of the rut because we don’t envision what it would look like. In order to move from A to B we need to have an idea of what B looks like and all that it would offer.
For this first step you need to write a description of what “getting out of the rut” looks like. If it’s relating to your daily routine and how you function throughout the day then visualize what a perfect productive day looks like and write it down. If it’s about finances then visualize how you want your finances to look like and write it down.

“Where there is no vision, the people perish.” Prov. 29:18 KJV

Step #2: Strategize
Strategize a plan of action to get you out of a rut. Make a list of steps or goals that will help you get from A to B. Don’t over analyze it to where it becomes overwhelming. Write 2-3 steps and take the first step. I can get in a major rut in the mornings. I love to stay up late but that doesn’t always play good in the mornings. I have to visualize what I would like my mornings to look like and the steps I need to make it happen. That usually starts with going to bed earlier and getting up at a certain time, having my devotional, then exercise….and so on. Since I work at home and my husband and I are empty nesters it’s easy for me to turn on my computer and become distracted before I even start my morning routine. I have to have a strategic plan for my mornings or my day will be wasted. How we start determines how we finish.

“A mind of man plans his way, but the LORD directs his steps.” Prov. 16:9 NASB

Step #3: Synergize
Sometimes it’s better to work with someone especially when the result can be greater, more sufficient, and quicker results. If you’re in a rut with your weight you may want to check out Weight Watchers or another program of your preference. If you’re in a rut with life you may want to hire a life coach…with business a business coach. If its exercise, find an exercise buddy—someone to hold you accountable. The reasoning behind synergizing is so you will move progressively forward and not find yourself back in a rut or continuing in a rut…a month….3 months…or a year from now.

“Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisors they succeed.” Prov. 15:22 NIV

Step #4: Actionize!
Take action and get moving. Put the plan into action. Don’t put all your hard work into visualizing, organizing and agonizing over who to synergize with. Be determined to move forward! Take that first step of action!

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men.” Col. 3:23 NIV

There is so much I can write about when it comes to dealing with being in a rut—it’s a place I’ve been prone to visit. But since this is a blog, I will hold out for another application. J Just remember if you find yourself in a rut:

Visualize where you want to be.
Strategize a plan to get out of the rut.
Synergize by getting help or accountability.
Actionize by taking action.

A note of encouragement: It may take a while to get your steps in rhythm but it’s better to practice getting the dance right then to sit on the side wishing you were in the dance.

So get moving—Get your feet in rhythm and start dancing, and get out of the rut!!!

For further information and encouragement in how to get out of a rut and into action check out the “How To Get Out Of The Rut CD”  at http://www.peggyreeves.com/shop.html

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